Each problem comes with its own strain on you, which sometimes makes its way into your love life. In a relationship, problems can arise from any direction - whether it’s inside or outside the home. That’s right, relationships aren’t exempt from life’s many problems. In most cases, nothing in life comes easy. If love came with an instruction manual, it probably would ease the worries in the hearts of lovers. But, if you are uncomfortable with introducing yourself to their new potential, then keep it moving. You can also choose not to speak, which could make you seem bitter and salty. Accept that the relationship is over and hope one day you can experience happiness with someone as well. The biggest mistake you can make is calling or texting them afterward. Once they’re introduced, keep it brief again: “Nice to meet you.” Once that’s over, you return to whatever you were doing. For example, “Hey, how are you?” Don’t call attention to their new boo by asking “And who is this?” You wait for them to be introduced before speaking. However, when you run into your ex, there are two approaches you can choose: speak or not speak. Everyone wants someone to call their own and there isn’t anything wrong with that. Don’t be surprised if they have a new boo on their arm too.Īlso, don’t think they were still supposed to be dwelling over you. Once a relationship goes sour and you and your ex have gone separate ways, it’s not uncommon that you won’t bump into each other from time to time. Lesson 4: Accept that your ex may move on faster than you expect. If it presents itself as an unhealthy resolution, you will know saying “I want to work it out again,” isn’t a wise decision to make. Then you can make a decision based on your initial feelings and those actions presented during the conversation. You’ll also see if your partner engages in eye contact with their so-called “truthful” responses. This method allows you to see their body language and hear the actual tone of their responses - listening for pauses, uncertainty and lack of emotion. To make sure you both are on one accord, a reconciliation shouldn’t be done through a phone call, text message, via Twitter or Facebook. You might feel like everything is cool and the relationship is headed in the right direction but your partner might be headed in another direction - with someone else. While this could be the truth, it’s not always the case, especially if the decision wasn’t shared by one another. Many times people think after an issue is resolved, the relationship has been repaired. There’s nothing like being the only one in love in a two-person relationship. Lesson 3: A reconciliation must be mutual.
You’ll have already resolved the situation at its earliest stage before it became untreatable. If you hear the problem early, work it out then, you won’t have to worry about hearing those haunting five words (where did we go wrong?) later. The doctor tells you, “Luckily, you caught in the early stages or it could have been a lot worse.” Look at listening like going for a checkup and finding out you have a serious illness.
The number one question you plead to your partner when they’re walking out the door is “where did we go wrong?” But the better question is “why weren’t you listening when they were trying to explain what was wrong?”Ī key part of a relationship is listening to your partner when they’re expressing their concerns on the current state of the relationship. Lesson 1: Listen and pay attention the first time your partner tells you something’s wrong. We’ve listed five love lessons from five standout tracks that can help bring peace back to your relationship - whether you’re together or not. If you can’t afford a relationship counselor, you’re in luck. Music has the ability to act as an interpreter that reveals underlying issues in the lives of its listener, who can’t express his or her shortcomings verbally to themselves.Įach song on Braxton and Edmonds’ new album uncovers a valuable lesson in love that could shed light on one’s current love state and help ease the troubles in the relationship.
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